Essential duties to be followed

In a discourse, Dr. Venkatesh outlined essential duties people must observe in their daily lives. He emphasised that one should always speak the truth; however, if speaking the truth causes pain or hurts another’s feelings, it is better to remain silent. Speech should be sweet, gentle, truthful, and beneficial to others. At the same time, one should never resort to falsehood merely to please someone.

A person should not concern himself with the mistakes committed by others; instead, he should reflect upon his own shortcomings and strive to correct them. A commonly raised question is why some people who commit sins appear to live happily and enjoy prosperity, while others who lead righteous lives seem to suffer. The answer often given is that sinners may appear to escape the consequences of their actions, but the effects of their misdeeds eventually extend to their progeny, who partake in the wealth accumulated through such unrighteous means.

One should never engage in arguments with certain people, namely one’s Acharya or Guru, maternal uncle, those who have surrendered seeking protection, children, the elderly, and those who are suffering. Likewise, one should avoid arguing with one’s father, mother, brothers, sisters, wife, and servants, as such conduct goes against propriety and compassion.

Men should engage in social service to the extent possible and actively support the cause of education. Though married life is difficult — often likened to a ship with a hole — one must, through sincere effort and perseverance, strive to steer it safely toward the shore of divine bliss.

We should strive hard to establish and maintain a company of good and noble souls, which will refine our character and elevate us. In contrast, association with bad elements drags us down into the depths of ruin.